Musing on first dates that took.

Musing on first dates that took.

Twenty five years ago tonight, I went on a first date.

Haven’t been able to lose the dude ever since.

Not through:

* sucky law school tax exams.

* inability to shake that pesky IRS.

* when I was a millisecond from accidentally burning our first house down less than 48 hours after moving in.

This guy doesn’t scare easily.

* One baby the old fashioned way.

*  Two babies by adoption.

*  Infernal teeth grinding in sleep during stressful periods.

* Love of the Florida Gators when all he cared of football was the NFL and the Vikes.

* My inability to keep house. And even worse — my utter inability to train children to do same.

No, 25 years ago he picked me up. And I had to wear pink.

Last second I looked for something to wear and nothing I liked was clean.

Figures.

I like pink.

On other people.

If he knew then what he knew now — wonder if he would still ask?

It’s not like I was easy. Twenty-five years ago anyway.

Did any of your first dates stick around? Ones that you are happy they did.

 

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Here we are 25 years later.

 No. That’s not us. Tonight out at dinner, we ran into Dorothy and Dan Newton.

Get this.

Today , October 3 is Dorothy’s birthday. (The date of our first date anniversary.)

Friday, October 7 is the anniversary of the day she and Dan met. (October 7 is my husband’s birthday.)

And if things couldn’t get any weirder.

I ate way too much pizza.

Here’s to another 25…

11 responses to “Musing on first dates that took.”

  1. john miles says:

    Good thing for you your Hot!

  2. john miles says:

    Why can’t you edit comments?

  3. Jamie Miles says:

    I’ll do it for u. 🙂

  4. julie Speyer says:

    He is cute…but not much in the grammar department, huh? You’re hot!!! That is a fact! Love y’all! Steve and I celebrate #20 next week.

  5. john miles says:

    See — that is what I was trying to fix.

  6. Aw! I love that you still have the ticket stub!

  7. Leigh Ann says:

    LOVE the ticket stub! Wish I still had mine from our first date! I’l just have to settle for the memories. Congrats on 25 years!

  8. Jamie Miles says:

    Yes, Megan and Leigh Ann there are some advantages to being a pack rat.

  9. Jamie Miles says:

    20 years…and just think, it might never have been if he hadn’t played dead. Congrats. He’s blessed in many ways.

  10. Nancy Miles says:

    This is Poppa. Nanny and I met on a blind first date — 52+ years ago. God is good. Now to my first date ever; I met the girl INSIDE the theater so no ticket stub but I did save 35 cents and a life time of unknown misery without my Nancy. I am certainly blessed that your first date stuck, Jamie. Love you both.

    As it was told to me 20 + years ago… Mom, I’m dating the “prettiest girl in the law school.” I recall that your first date disappointed — or should I say “angered” — one of the guys John roomed with. And I’ve been smiling at the Miles family good fortune ever since. My wishes for a lifetime of First Date Anniversaries. Love always, Nanny

  11. Jamie says:

    Happy Anniversary!

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